How to let a man down easily: on the street

So this one is more for the ladies. Do you know that an attractive woman walking the streets gets an average of 535,342 cat...

How to Restore Family Values

“Johhny, can you please take out the trash?” Child snarls. “I’m six. Do I look like the freakin’ maid?” Mother becomes enraged. “I’m your...

How I saved $1000 in 2 Years

There are many overnight success stories about people who make six figures in one month. And some even make millions of dollars in one...

10 things Humanity still can’t make up its Mind about

We live in a world with billions of people, each with different likes, dislikes and opinions. So naturally it only makes sense there would...

Redefining Success

Many of these motivational videos have been floating around the Internet for years; but they honestly had begun to lose the effect they once...

Why Thinking Positive is Horse Manure

In this world it's often promoted that everyone should just "follow their dreams". And so, it's quite easy to get carried away without realizing...

Think before you Judge

For decades, a lot of people have constantly been judging others without thinking. They see an old lady carrying a heap of grocery bags...

How to let a man down easily: in a relationship

You've been together with your significant other for some time. It could be weeks, months or years. The time period is pretty much irrelevant....

Winta in Trinidad

*Written August, 2015 Her name is Winta Ghidei and she was born and raised in the country of Eritrea, and if you are one of...

Steve Harvey is not always right

I am a fan of Steve Harvey and what he has contributed to the world; with that said, nothing in this article is meant...

The Best Movie of All Time?

A lot of people are not huge fans of Japanese anime. I fall in the category, "I'm not that crazy about anime, but I...

Quenching your thirst for more

Day after day we are bombarded with one thing after the next. Some of these things make us feel better about ourselves while others...

Stop being a Shopaholic!

You know who you are. You either got banks and collection agencies phoning you ten times a day, too many gadgets in your house...

Be aware of Gaslighting

I must admit that I had never heard of the word gaslighting for a very long time until I stumbled across it on the...

Should women give “it” up?

Nowadays there seems to be some very interesting perceptions about what should or should not be done between couples before marriage. These same people...

How to control OCD

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) is a common, chronic and long-lasting disorder in which a person has uncontrollable, recurring thoughts (obsessions) and behaviors (compulsions) that he...

Respect what’s beneath you

I've had the unfortunate experience witnessing human behavior at its worst on numerous occasions. But one thing I cannot stand is seeing another human...

The Myth of Infinite Options

Many people have been raised or are still being raised under the merry and whimsical fantasies created by Disney. Now, I love Disney. Disney...

JK Rowling: The one who started it all

I remember it well. I was 19 years old about to hit 20 and had recently left my full time job as a Graphic...

The Dark Side of Christianity

Many people hate to speak of the dark sides of things. This is even more so when it's something they believe in with all...

When it’s okay to Rape someone

There once was a movie I could not hear enough about each day for months while browsing the Internet. It was summed up as...

Are you Tired of Life?

The headline alone would instantly grab people's attention. The question would make some immediately say to themselves, "Am I tired?" or "Why are they...

The real reason we have Exes

I can't remember exactly when the confirmation hit me but the observation definitely started a few years back. While chatting with different people, about...

Are you a Showboat?

We live in a time where privacy is often not as valued as it used to be. In earlier times it was easier seen...

When it’s more than just Mood Swings

How do you know when it's more than just Mood Swings? Picture being in a relationship with someone that goes likes this: On weekdays...

The true Power of Credit Cards

Never in a million years did I ever think I would endorse the usage of credit cards. After all, for so long all I...

You can escape Poverty

So many people continue to make endless excuses for not becoming financially free that it's always refreshing to see something different. Finally, some real...

A for Apple and C for Sex

Be a good little boy or girl and we’ll let you have sex, conjugal sex—that is, if you’re not already having it with your...

How to let a man down easily: in bed

Arguably the most difficult place to let a man down easily is in bed. Understandably so, it is difficult because of the level of...

Battle of the Sexeses

Long ago we lived in a world where there were only two sexes: male and female, which both had one of two preferences. Either...

Rum chow for Feters to enjoy

*Written February, 2016 Trinbagonians are naturally so creative that they tend to go out of their way to make chow with almost any fruit imaginable....

The Perfection Trap

It's often promoted that we should consistently seek to obtain the best in life. These are indeed wise words. But some people take things...

How to spot a Delilah

Many people know what a Delilah is from reading the story of Samson and Delilah in the Bible. This is the woman who helped...

Why Relationships are Dead

Once upon a time, a romantic relationship was seen as the most beautiful thing; it made lots of people feel happy and alive. Of...

Do you have “over 30 syndrome” ?

Do you have "over 30 syndrome"? There's a new kind of syndrome around these days. Well, it's not really new. But it's seemingly been...

Understanding the MGTOW Movement

I can't remember the exact point in time when I stumbled upon the MGTOW movement. But I do remember reviewing some of the online...

How Hypocrites see Relationships

When it comes to relationships it often seems that everyone has the perfect idea of who, what and how their most ideal partner is...

The Hidden Path to a Doomed Marriage

There is generally never one reason for the failure of a marriage. After all, it takes two to make things work. But even easier,...

10 Traditions COVID-19 showed up

Almost everyone can admit that the long awaited 2020 did not turn out the way they hoped. That dreaded Coronavirus seemingly came out of...

One Step from Redemption

Everyone knows it, life is tough. And quite frankly, despite the many "feel good speeches" people may encounter, there's no guarantee they would always...

How to treat with others

The saying "treat others the way you would like to be treated" can be heard a million times. And yet, not everyone will consider...

Why Christian women might be better

Okay, so it's quite a bold statement to make that a certain category of women might be better than another. After all, there are...

The real meaning of Valentine’s Day

It's that time of year again where some people feel butterflies in their stomachs; others may experience diarrhea on all the days leading up...

What You’re Really Worth

The first thing that comes to mind when people think about what someone is really worth is money. But as cliched as it may...

Do you Measure Up or Down?

Time after time again I've witnessed a particular scenario. People find themselves observing the success of someone else and then feeling like an absolute...

When to forget the Competition

Everyday we are forced to compete in one capacity or another. Whether it be in school, work, against our peers and among society as...

Love yourself before you Love God

We live in a world where it's often promoted by those of faith that you should always put God first. Therefore the idea to...

Who Pays on the First Date

There was once a time when it had been taboo for a man to not show nobility to a woman. For instance, if a...

Barber-Q becomes an Engineer

Years ago I had the opportunity to interview Mr. Quintin Feveck for an article written for Sweet TnT Magazine. At the time he had been studying...

A Disorder for You, A Disorder for Me

"Hi, I'm Crazy. And you?""Oh, hi. I'm Bipolar.""And how about you?""Hi, well I'm depressed and I got ADHD too!" Now by no means is the...

Should you Go Back to School?

It's been a while since "going back to school" first started being promoted as the in thing to do. Despite rising student debt in...

Steven King: The Master of Horror

There isn't anything I can say about Stephen King that most who know about Stephen King don't already know. What I can say, however,...

What’s in a Stupid Question?

We've grown up hearing that there's no such thing as a stupid question. But even a so-called stupid person may sometimes feel that this...

Why Women Hate Men

The word “hate” probably exists in every English dictionary and is quite useful for expressing disgust at anything vile. However, “hate” is often accused...

The Secret to Overnight Success

There has long been a saying that it takes 15 - 20 years to become an overnight success. This fact is as clear as...

What happens when Women Drink

I never would have believed it if I hadn't seen it with my own eyes on multiple occasions. Prior to those experiences, I always...

Roberto Blake: an entrepreneur to watch

Very rarely do I take notice of someone's success specifically because they make a lot of money. But Roberto Blake's story truly caught my...

Is Inflation really a problem?

Ask anyone who is financially literate, "Would you rather today's money or tomorrow's money?" and you may get one of many responses. It all...

Does God really Exist?

Like politics, I generally do not debate religion with anyone; it often turns into a never-ending battle that is pointless. Make peace, not war...

The Path to Happiness

There are endless motivational or inspirational videos around these days claiming to have discovered the path to happiness. Many give you a lot of...

The Secret to Education

Many people claim that education has significantly grown over the past fifty years. Contrastingly, a universal trend has long been on the rise; it...

Should you Gamble?

As someone who admittedly never gambled excessively in life I never thought I would one day write an entire article about gambling. Gambling in...

Sitting on the other side of the table

Many people, especially younger ones, can relate to the agonizing experience of preparing and sending out dozens of resumes . They send out these...

Why Everyone needs to know Marketing

I've come to realize that everyone needs to know marketing but most don't realize why they need it. I say this under the context...

How to Forgive Someone You Hate

Anger is a funny thing. It is one of the deadliest of all emotions, arguably second only to its big brother, Hate. When someone...

What makes a Real Woman?

The phrase, "be a real man" is used so often. But its frequent usage seemingly masks the answer to the question when it's reversed:...

Does Marriage make or break?

Marriage is that special unity that most persons likely give a serious thought about at some point. From a very young age, through the...

Why “Poor People” make me angry

It's long been accepted the world is made up of "one-percenters" who are represented by a minute portion of society; these people are essentially...

12 video games that got me though life

I'm older now and don't play video games anywhere near as much as I used to; but I still have a lot of love...

All that glitters is not gold

People know that all that glitters is not gold, yet still prefer to dig and see for themselves. Why? Because they are just suckers...

10 Things You Should REALLY Do Before You Die

This is not a bucket list containing fun and whimsical things that everyone should do because "You Only Live Once". These are for those...

Do you value the right things?

The things people value in this world are all subjective based on their personal beliefs, opinions and preferences. What's fascinating about this is that...

Motives and Motivation

Nowadays you can't seem to be online long enough before being bombarded with yet another motivational or inspirational post from a successful Influencer or...

Let’s all celebrate “Fake Independence”

These days it often seems like people are quite eager to celebrate anything: "Hey, I ate all my lunch today." Yayyyyyy. "My daughter got...

TV versus a Computer

It's interesting that even today some people can't tell the stark difference between using a TV and a computer. A TV gives you information...

When “the blessed” becomes a curse

You often hear a lot of people who possess a lot of money, power, fame or even those who have a family or are...

JD Salinger: The Rebel who made me Rebellious

Ok, so this a very controversial one. Yes, JD Salinger is indeed the rebel who made me Rebellious. But before anyone starts sending me...

Stop waiting on Mr. Right

A friend sent me this video, asking for my take on it. I reviewed the video and thought the speaker's words were accurate, for...

10 unexpectedly remarkable degrees

Commercially speaking, not all degrees are created equally. But the ones on this list—while not the most universally acknowledged—can indeed add significant value to...

Stop being afraid to lose

Life is truly exciting and fun when you're winning. When you get that job you want, that house you dreamed of or that car...

The difference between Hardship and “Harden’ness”

Almost everyone is quite familiar with the saying, "life is hard". No matter who you are there are hardships that you must face at...

Sin versus Sinners

Sin is specified as an act considered to be a transgression against divine law while a Sinner is a person who commits sin. The...

When The Win is in The Loss

I am an avid fan of the sport of cricket, namely Twenty20 cricket; however, cricket is a game that many persons around the world...

Nubuo Uematsu: My go-to Motivator

Nubuo Uematsu is a name I didn't know I needed to know till at least a decade had passed of his work consistently motivating...

The Price of being too Nice

Imagine a man is at home with his woman watching TV on a Saturday afternoon. Suddenly a a car pulls up in front...

How to Live without a Job

The title of this article is enough to infuriate many readers. Yet some would probably still find their way here initially thinking, "Let me...

The 5 stages of a Honeymoon

Many romantically experienced people are quite familiar with the nature of honeymoons. They are some of the most blissful experiences you will every come...

10 Girls guys should avoid

Ok, so maybe the average guy just wants to get with the girl that looks hot, talks dirty, and is willing to rip off...

What are you waiting on to have Children?

Many people, especially if they're over 30, get numerous questions from different people relative to their baby-making (or lack of baby-making) activities. It's almost...

How to tell your Wife her Cooking Sucks

You’ve just come home from a tough day of work; your tummy starts making funny noises the moment you enter your house. It’s as...

School in the Clouds

Envision a school where all students always put their best foot forward; envision a school where there is always peace among peers. All the...

There’s more to Life than Love

Is there really more to life than love? Most people either know what it feels like to be in love or once were in...

The True Value of Money

Imagine a scenario where you check your bank account balance before bed and see you have $1, 545, 763.32.” You smile peacefully then head...

Chad Wilson Takes the Perfect Shot

*Written August, 2014 Since the advent of cameras almost 200 years ago more and more people have consistently gotten used to the idea of “taking...

What to do with “Short Attention Spans”

Attention spans sure are different these days. Send someone a meme with a dancing cat and they would likely get all jolly and excited....

Samurai X: The episode that changed me

Samurai X, also known as Rurouni Kenshin, has been one of my favorite television series since a child. To date, it is still one...

To be or not to be Gay?

Being gay today is no longer as big a deal as it once was. Of course not everyone will feel the same. And it...

Jay Shetty: a king of inspiration

Jay Shetty made so many inspirational and motivational videos over a very small number of years; he easily created the impression that he had...

Navigating a World of Double Standards

A friend once sent me a picture for laughs; the picture displayed a toddler with its buttocks facing the camera, legs outstretched, the biggest...

Job or Jail?

Since a child, all I heard for quite some time was go to school, study hard and become highly educated. Then work hard to...